Finding the Silver Lining

Even through the heartbreak, I struggle to find the good that will come of this situation. Here's what I've found so far:

Top Ten Reasons to Happy About This:

1. No more guilt trips for not having the energy to go places with Uber-Bitch
2. No more biting my tongue over UB's-Kid sleep habits.
3. Get to sleep in again
4. No more baby-proofing everything
5. Kid-1 gets his own room back
6. Kid-2 won't be frequently woken up at night by UB's-Kid
7. No more resentment over Uber-Bitch going to school
8. No more worrying about who will be home for UB's-Kid
9. Grocery bills go down a lot.
10.No more defending Uber-Bitch's behaviors constantly

Maybe if I keep telling myself this is a good thing, eventually I'll believe it.....